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Episode 45

Sex Nerd Sandra

Dating and... Chivalry!?

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Sex Nerd Sandra #45: Dating and… Chivalry!?

MUFFIN DATES, TACO DATES, and OFFICIAL DATES! Chivalry isn’t dead, it’s just really confusing. Join Sandra, Dave, Dating Advice Girl Erin Tillman, and dating expert extraordinaire Madison Shepard for a hilarious look at the mating dance including: Prep, During and Follow Up Procedures, Common Courtship Qualms (who pays?), Dating for Sex vs Love, Bookmarking, and why FUN should be the ultimate objective!

 

San Francisco Sex Nerds! Join Sandra on Monday, July 23rd at 6pm for her workshop on Booty Basics! It will be more fun than allowed!

 

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12 comments

  • Nice, this was an interesting episode.

    Y’know, I still don’t know if I’ve been on a date. A few times I was on some big afternoon outings with someone to places like parks and museums, and it was just us enjoying each other’s company. They kept proposing the meetups, and encouraged me to also but I kind of failed at that. It may have been in the “muffin date” category, but I really don’t know. Either way though, was a good experience so it doesn’t really matter :)

  • Y’know, I still don’t know if I’ve been on a date. A few times I was on some big afternoon outings with someone to places like parks and museums, and it was just us enjoying each other’s company. They kept proposing the meetups, and encouraged me to also but I kind of failed at that. It may have been in the “muffin date” category, but I really don’t know. Either way thouh, was a good experience so it doesn’t really matter :)

  • I listen to your podcast and I love them. I listen in my car when I’m driving around.

    In the beginning of this podcast you were talking about the “paper-cutter movement” because you did not know the scientific word to use. I think you were looking for was “fulcrum”. It sounds cool when associated with your podcast theme because it sounds close to “f**krum”. :)

    Here is a link I found for you to learn more about it and if this was the word you were looking for: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lever.

    Enjoy.

  • So I like the rule of “whoever asks, pays.” It just works.

    If you think the guy should always pay, then all you have to do is never ask a guy out.

    If you think the guy should always pay for the first date, then let the guy ask you out on a first date and alternate from there.

    If you think spending on dates should be equitable, then alternate on who asks who out and pay whenever you ask someone out.

    As for the muffin dates, I realize folks be poor these days, but who spends the $4.35 for a muffin and a coffee is not a feminist issue.